Char- says:

From day #1, I wondered what in the world Sandra saw in this guy Jesse-and even commented to family-friends about his charachter, that something just wasn’t right with this man. I felt Sandra was far too classy, beautiful, kind and good to be with him-I felt she was not with her “equal”. I had the intuition this was going to happen-once a dog, always a dog-his demeanor on his car-chop shop show you could “see” there was more to this guy than he was allowing to be seen, prior to his and Sandra’s having met and married. These types of people, thier inability to be faithful to those who entrust them never changes until it is too late-and the mistake is made. Love does this to people, it blinds you from seeing what others clearly see-when in-love with the person. Sandra-best let go of her relationship with his children though, because she needs to “move-on” with her new baby boy, her life and career-and these children will only “keep her in the loop” of thier fathers existance and sorry excuse of a man, and his hurtful actions. So for her sake and her new baby’s sake-she needs to do her best to “let-go” and move on-the sooner, the better. I realize it is not the childrens fault, and they have an established relationship, even so its only been 5 years not 20 and they are after all his children and thier mothers (regardless of her sorry lifestyle), she is thier “mother”-and those matters and problems should be handled between the parents who had them and raised them, prior to Sandra’s coming into that existing situation between Jesse and his ex-wife, the childrens mother. I agree with Sandra regarding her opinions and wishes for the children, however step parents have no legal authority regarding custodial “rights” of a child, and every effort and energy spent in that custody case, has proven “since”, to be a complete waste of her goodness and time. So I hope she will let-go in due time (again-the sooner the better for her and her baby’s sake)…cherish the good memories but then move-on. The less confusion and drama for this precious new baby boy, the better. And Sandra must put “his” needs first and priority-now. Thank goodness Jesse’s name was not put on the birth certificate of this innocent baby, can you imagine being referred to as “the baby whose father cheated on it’s mother-and with Nazi attributes”-poor baby boy would have to carry that image forever, and that just would not have been fair at all to any child. Sandra should take time off and relax, spend time with that precious angel of hers…and not come back into the public until she is genuinely ready and healed. Her life now is committed to this baby boy, and his needs take priority over “all others”-naturally. And right now, she needs him as much, if not even more than he needs her….truth be understood and known, I am sure. As for the women …what can anyone “expect” when it comes to these types of women, they are relentless, rude and crude and simply unattractive. I do not buy the first one didnt know they were together, obviousely she was watching him sitting there with Sandra during the awards, so she knew they were together, period. The two literally are from the exact same background, have everything in common and clearly “deserve each other”, and the smut they’ve made of themselves. Some people just “never change”. Protect this baby boy, and smile Sandra-life is what we make of it.., and you’ve made it “count in every way”. God Bless Sandra and her precious gift, and angel….life is so good to us.