Terry says:

It saddens me to see this happening. I was in a VERY similar situation but not famous.
The love of my life was an addict with multiple addictions. I attended meetings with him and went to Alanon for myself. We also did counseling with other couples and privately. I felt we were both very much in love. I am not sure if this situation is reconcileable. Mine, unfortunately was not. I can tell you that I “did” want to work it out. When we attended Church together and he was not using we had 1 wonderful year together. I only wish we could have stayed on that path. I believe still that it is possible for 2 people who really love each other (even if your backgrounds are so totally different) to survive with the right help. (God’s help)
My X is no longer in my life, but I can tell you that there is not 1 day that goes by that I still do not think of him. It has been 4 years since we have spoken. I pray for both of you. It is so important NOT to react right now. There are stages of hurt and anger. Also this is the most important time for meetings and individual counseling. I wish you both the best and Sandra I feel your pain. It cuts like a knife and knowone will ever be able to replace what you once had. It does get easier to live one day at a time. The power of the Love I felt for him was so overwhelming that I have chosen to never get that close to anyone again. I never want to hurt like that again. I can still feel the hole in my heart and an emptyness that is unexplainable. My kids are my lifeline now. It saddens me to say that I have not spoke to his son or seen him (except to run into him casually at the mall) I can only imagine the story’s that were fabricated. I had to completely remove myself from everything that involved him for my own sanity. I lost more than my husband, I lost a son and daughter in law and grandson. I still love them all but have to love them from a distance. I truely want you to know how deeply sorry I am for you and all that you are going through right now. I am praying and hoping for the best for you.

Jenny1989 says:

Poor Sandra Jesse is an awful liar ;/

Jessica says:

I am all too familiar with being cheated on. The pain and anger that come with it can be overwhelming and even unbearable. I stayed at my marriage the first time it happened for the kids. Now that the kids are grown & my youngest is 9, the devil stuck again. But now I am faced with a choice, to stay and honor my vows and take a chance at my hear being broken again or do I leave and put my life back together. Well this decision has been harder that I thought. My husband has re-commited his life to Christ and that great but the hurt and damage has been done but Christ can heal all even the broken heart. So I chose to stay because given the choices in this world the grass isn’t always greener on the other side. I wouldn’t want to get stuck with something or someone worse. Even though he broke my heart he has always treated me good and I know that now a days that’s a rare find.

Karen says:

Sandra: DUMP his sorry tatooed butt now… You are soooo much better than that. Remember its much better to be alone than be with someone and feel alone. It’s just not worth it, remember you and you alone have the power and if you let him he will take advantage…… Be Strong and kick him to the gutter where he belongs.

andrea says:

if she really loves this man and it seems like she does from her speeches, she should try and make her marriage work. men are stupid, and they are even more stupid when they have some money and some power (basically sandra bullock’s husband). men are weak and if a woman gives herself to him with no recourse, unless they truly have a moral highground and think about the repercussions then they ususally succumb. nobody knew of this woman until this happened. she certainly didn’t entertain the thought of jessie leaving sandra, she only did it because it was something to do. Jessie is an opposite and its very hard to commit to that person, because of what your friends, family and the public will say. she married him anyway, so apparently there is something there, she didn’t have to marry him. my wish for her is to truly listen to her spirtual guide and decide whether or not this person is not only worth her forgiveness (who are we to judge) but also her love and to admit him back in her life. many women and men have forgiven spouses for infidelity, unfortunately hers is very public and on the heels of the highest point in her career.